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Dating advice for actual humans.

Clear, researched and refreshingly honest articles for navigating apps, awkward conversations, safety and everything between.

Dating apps

Why do I get no matches on tinder or dating apps?

It isn’t because you are ugly — here’s a frank look at why app matches can feel so hard to come by.

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Dating safety

Signs you think You’re Being Catfished

We’ve all heard of being “catfished” or being misled on the internet by someone who’s created a fake profile.

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Dating safety

Why are there so many Chinese or oriental girls on Facebook dating?

Are you receiving numerous matches from profiles appearing to be Chinese or Japanese girls on Facebook dating? Feeling uncertain about their authenticity?

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Dating safety

Why Do Men Pretend to Be Women Online?

Are you confused about why men would pretend to be women online?

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Dating advice

Exploring Women’s Terrible Online Conversation Skills: Understanding the Why

Women’s online conversation skills are terrible, and they have only got worse in the dating app years.

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Modern dating

He seems perfect—but leaves you empty

Why polished charm can hide emotional distance, and how to stop repeating the pattern.

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Dating apps

The Evolution of Dating Apps: Exploring the History and Future Trends

It’s fascinating to think about how our quest for connection has evolved over time.

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Dating apps

Most Popular Dating Apps 2024: Trends and Reviews for Online Relationships

The dating app landscape has dramatically transformed in 2024.

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Dating advice

The Evolution of Dating: Understanding Preferences Versus Standards

Understanding the difference between preferences and standards can transform your dating experience.

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Dating apps

Why Dating Apps Don't Work for Men: Common Frustrations and Missed Connections

An honest look at the frustrations that make dating apps feel emotionally draining.

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Dating apps

Tinder Pointless Swipe Surges

What those bursts of activity might actually mean — and why more swipes do not always make better matches.

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